On the issue of hair
Genitals have hair. Yours do. His does. That’s how mammals are. But it doesn’t always make giving a blow job fun.
If his hair is getting in the way of you giving a blow job for the first time or going down on your man as often as he’d like, suggest that your man trim it. Trimming is less likely to cause a cut than shaving, and he’ll still be more kempt. If he wants to shave but struggles, offer to help him in the shower.
Your Blow Job Compass
For most guys, their body will provide the best feedback for you. When a guy is really enjoying himself, he will find it hard to keep quiet or prevent his body from reacting to the pleasure you’re giving him. So…
Listen to his breathing – Does it shorten/quicken or get heavier, meaning he’s enjoying himself? Or does it remain unchanged?
Listen to his voice – Along with his breathing, does he start to moan, groan, or “Ahhhh” & “Ohhhh.” These are some very obvious signs that what you’re doing is working. Calling out to God is also a great sign ??
Listen to his body – Does he remain perfectly still, or can you see his body writhing with pleasure. Clenched fists, curled toes, grabbing you, arching his back, tilting his head back/lifting his chin up are all signs that you have been thoroughly satisfying him.
Some repressed guys may claim that they don’t like anal stimulation during a blow job, but if you try it, you may find that his body responds differently, with shorter breaths, groans of pleasure, and a more intense orgasm than usual.
The bottom line
So listen to what he says, learn what he prefers, make sure he understands your boundaries and make dam well sure you listen to his body if you want to learn how to give him the best blow job of his life.
For more information on having good communication when it comes to sex, you may want to check out this guide on sexual communication to help you better communicate your preferences.
The Golden Technique – Enthusiasm
Have you ever been merely going through the motions with a guy, where he seemed almost uninterested and unenthusiastic about getting it on? It’s a real turn off and can make you feel very unsexy.
On the other hand, have you ever been with a guy who can’t keep his hands off you, who looks at you like a lion eyeing his prey and when you do get intimate with him, he kisses you with intense passion and makes love to you with his entire being. It’s like he’s possessed and all he can think of is…you.
When you give your boyfriend a blow job (or hand job or have sex with him) while being completely enthusiastic about it and totally focused on him, it’s going to massively arouse and turn him on.
So even if you’re aren’t totally sure about what you’re doing, just focus on being enthusiastic. You’ll be surprised at how much this tip alone can be enough to make your man scream with pleasure. You don’t have to give a perfect blow job if you’re really enthusiastic and into it!